Being Independent

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This holiday season is one of joy and splendor for my family and I. However, I did something that I normally wouldn't do and I think it was for the better. 

I went to the mall and did some Christmas shopping by myself! This is completely out of the norm for me and really is something I haven't done before. 

I hate being alone in crowded places, so a shopping mall isn't the most ideal place for me. It was such a liberating experience though. I finally achieved some feeling of independence and it was nice to have some time to myself while I shopped for my loved ones. 

I felt very mature and it was nice to be able to help my mom and get her Christmas shopping done. 


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